By the way: Abuse is not your birth right!!

Sameer is a famous surgeon and his wife Aman is a gynaecologist. Aman takes care of both home and hospital but Sameer finds no time for home. He has left everything on Aman and wants her to perform best in both fields. Aman manages funds and other matters too. Sameer performs surgeries outside India but he never bothers to check his diary for future appointments. Aman has to maintain his schedule and she fixes his appointments for the whole month. Sameer had a big conference in London few months back. Aman booked his tickets and arranged visa. She packed his bags and Sameer left for airport in hurry. He reached London and got ready to attend the conference. He checked his bags but his file was missing which he had to read in front of world’s best surgeons in the conference . He faced humiliation and felt offended. He came back to India and reached home. Sameer shouted at Aman and used the most vulgar language in front of the staff. Aman tried to keep calm but Sameer did not stop. He went further to insult Aman for the mistake which was unintentionally done. Sameer threw her bag and other stuff from his room. Aman cried and locked herself in guest room. Sameer did everything to abuse her to make her understand the worth of a surgeon husband. Aman’s efforts, love and affection for her husband in all these years went in vain. 

She is still living in guilt and fear. 

This is very common in our society. Men treat women like their personal property. She can’t even breath or say anything against her husband. women have no right to buy property or car because men do not trust their wisdom. No matter how intelligent she may be or which post she holds in job, she is always miserable and weird in her choices. Have you ever commonly seen a woman who bought a single home on her own? Men can not tolerate successful women generally. Exceptions are always there but they are very few. It’s the birth right of a man to control his wife by using absurd words. He may stops her from wearing western clothes. Some goes even further and blame their wives for watching other men in public. Humiliation never stops and it continues till the woman breaks down or become depressed. We can not change society until we change our mindsets. Women , too, are made of blood and flesh. A woman has no right to abuse her husband in public. She will be hated by all if she does so. When a man does this , he can say sorry and expects from his wife to forgive immediately. 

Abusive language can harm your partner’s soul permanently. It’s better to stop hurting your wife and create an healthy environment for her in society. She may hide her physical scars from the world but her heart will always bleed with pain. Make healthy relations and trust your partner’s loyalty towards you. It is not possible to prove innocence all the time. Stop using abusive words to show off your masculinity. It’s not your birth right! It can never be appreciated by God too.