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Love is eternal. Love is pure.

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13 Feb 16
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Love is eternal. Love is pure. Love is everything. Humans are born to love but still some people hate love marriages. In some parts of India, casteism is so much in people's mind that even talking about love is a big crime. I have lived in many parts of our country and I have found that some people are really biased in their opinions about love marriages. I think main reason is education, another reasons may be unawareness and rigidity. We always forget this fact that Caste and culture may be different but colour of blood is the same. India is a country where people of different castes n cultures live peacefully. But peace and unity vanishes when we talk about love marriages.
Some people have changed their mind sets in past few years and others are just opposing without any valid reason. People criticize one another's caste without any solid reason.
We take birth to spread happiness everywhere but we forget everything easily and snatch away happiness from our kids when they want to marry in another caste.
We give birth to children and it is impossible to bring a life on earth without being fallen in love. Our kids are born and brought up in a beautiful world of hope , love and affection. As they grew older our expectations also started shaping up. We treat our children as assets and don't want to give them total independence.
It is true that we have given them birth but it is also true that our kids have individual personalities and we can't impose all our thoughts on them without listening to their thoughts. Our kids are made of same blood and flesh and I am sure that all of us might had liked someone in our youth. We had gone through same pain and emotions while talking to our parents about our love. But after becoming parents why should we start thinking differently?
Living standard has become high these days and some ordinary people demand dowry just to raise their living standard. But opposing love for these reasons is not good. Our children are smart enough and can take good care of their life. In ancient times people were more modern and independent. Sita and Draupadi chose their grooms in 'Swayamwar'. They were princesses and still their fathers gave them right to choose their grooms.
Now we live in modern world and society and still we are afraid of giving our children right to choose their partners.
Isn't it funny that we take all major decisions of our children's life without asking them once. Education and marriage must be of their choices and not ours because they have to live life with their partners. We must show them right path but in this process we mustn't ignore their inner feelings.
It's not good to blackmail children in the name of family, caste and culture. We must give them chance to choose their partners. This can build up their confidence and once they started marrying in different castes, many problems may vanish. Dowry system has taken many lives of innocent girls and many girls don't get married on time due to this problem. If we start accepting love marriages whole heatedly we can save money and respect of our parents. Girl's father is the most humiliated person on this planet. Girls are not being hated to be born as girls but most people hate them because of this social system. If we want to finish gender discrimination and do welfare we must accept love marriages.
I have a request to our youth too. Please select your life partners according to your nature and education. Try to convince your parents before taking any step. If parents are rigid try to make them understand the reason behind your decision. A good and healthy family can build up healthy society. If one example is being set and general behaviour changes then every other human being can learn from this. World is changing. Some people are hopeful for the unity and globalisation of the world. We mustn't lag behind in thought process and can make our country the best place to live in this world. Oppose hatred, oppose cruelty but do not oppose love. After all we live for love. Caste and culture may vary but being a good human being must be our priority. Film industry is being criticised for short term relationships in marriages. But they accept all religions and castes with open minds . I have never heard that a film star was given divorce on the ground of caste and religion.
We can easily grasp good habits from film stars in this matter. Now I am finishing this article with a hope that our old generation will realise their mistake and young generation won't take any wrong step but try to behave maturely by taking right steps to make our society's future bright. It's not easy to change social set up in a day. But thinking in positive direction and accepting love can bring a big change in future.
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